Get prepared to delve deeper into your inner knowing, as you read about and relate to, the various topics here.
One Caveat... if you are seeking instant permanent changes where you snap out of it when I hypnotize you and walk around like a zombie saying "Will not smoke" "Wow these clothes no longer fit! After a 50 minute session I instantly lost 30 pounds!" or "magically I have $1,000,00 in my bank account" or better yet "I listened to one session and now I got a record deal..it just happened!" this is not the place for that.
Any hypnosis program that offers you changes without any effort on your part or any of that type of magic wand stuff, is hype and I don't recommend you waste your time or money on it.
This is not about pie in the sky, or get rich quick. If that is what you are seeking this is not the place for that.
This is a place where you can learn about how to realistically begin to make changes that are lasting and permanent.
We will begin with this brief introduction to some aspects of your subconscious mind that we will be working with and why I like to hypnotize in addition to using Brainwave technology.
First do this:
Clear your mind, take a deep breath, close your eyes, open them and read the following sentence and quickly close your eyes again:
-give your self the freedom to follow the steps exactly -
Clear your mind, close your eyes, open your eyes, and then read the next sentence and then once again quickly close your eyes
...don't think of or visualize a cartoon blue elephant that is big and fat with a long blue trunk eating an imaginary brown peanut. close your eyes... What just happened? ... I bet you briefly thought of a blue elephant, even for just a fraction of a nanosecond, or felt some type of disorientation as you resisted your natural inclination to think of or visualize the silly blue elephant in your mind.
That's because the mind responds to action words.
The words like "don't, shouldn't, couldn't, and wouldn't", may never register to your creative mind.
That is why, typically, most people think of a blue elephant before they rush on to find some 'other' thing to think about.
This website is all about how you can use knowledge like this to your best advantage and begin feeling more in control of your life!
A classic example of how this works in everyday life is when Mom or Dad is tells their young child...
"Don't slam the door"
Now you can almost hear exactly what comes next as the playful children make their way to the door to run out side to play.
Those noises of laughing and scurrying out the door are silenced with the sound of ...BAM....
This all begins at a very young age with our little computer programs within.
The action word "slam door" is what those little minds are receptive to rather then the don't part.
Why?
Well the words slam door are action words, and our creative minds are continually working on all actions weather we are thinking about these words or not.
Once you get the hang of how this works, the results of suggestions are somewhat less mysterious. You can see how easy it is to hypnotize your children without even knowing it.
Think the scene where a parent is exacerbated with exhaustion and they say something like "I tell you over, and over, and over don't slam the door..."
That is a classic example of
hypnotize slam door... hypnotize slam door... hypnotize slam doordon"t fall... don"t fall... don"t fall
Consider this..
As you were reading about the scene of parent child interaction, my guess is that you are remembering your own childhood or a day in the life as a parent.
Consider the body language of Mom or Dad and that of their child, in response to this.
We know kids have an innate desire to please and get acceptance and approval in order to thrive, flourish and grow in well being and personal happiness.
Since we know this is a basic human need they may be matching this request with body language or vocal tones.
Can you see the children responding to this request in some way, perhaps by momentarily lowering there vocal tones in order to accommodate there parent's request?
Sure.
Why do they revert to the program of slam the door if they are obviously responding with this type of natural desire to please and conform?
Well could be that for a child, on a some level, don't slam the door... is about noise, so they put in some type of conscious attempt to fulfill a parents wishes.
Since they are clueless about the fact that the request is about breaking and wearing down the door over time, as a result of being slammed.
Perhaps in their critical mind (which is most active during full waking consciousness, the part that evaluates and uses logic capabilities) they have achieved success in meeting their parents request to quiet down and so they naturally revert to their focus being on playing quietly while in the house.
Then they they play quietly they are no longer putting a conscious effort into their immediate self monitoring and so, that is when the subconscious program is free to kick in when they are unaware of it as they run to pay outside. Make sense?
Now you are getting a more in depth idea about how to hypnotize with reprogramming your mind effectively and a general idea of why hypnosis works so well...
You can begin to use it to get the results you are seeking in yourself and maybe in your children. So lets take this a step further...Every day we are seeing, hearing, and even learning new thoughts.
However, we also tend to stay in the same city, around the same friends and family, so most of those thoughts are repeated on a daily basis.
And, as we know, "Repetition Strengthens and Confirms".
It is kind of simple and kind of complicated!
The structuring of suggestions can be complicated once you consider the in and outs of what you are attempting to hypnotize and reprogram -probably a mind that has had many experiences and memories. The basic idea is rather simple.
Let me elaborate a little.... Early on, we develop certain habits.
Our habits come from a combination of those repeated thoughts, and our emotional ties to them. Our emotional ties are where we find the motivation that reinforce certain habits.
That is why we start smoking or start gaining weight in the first place.
Are we predisposed to habits by our genetics or are habits strictly environmentally influenced?
Our genetics play a role in all this as well, typically we see that those who have DNA patterns that have tendencies to grow adipose tissue are further susceptible to obesity when the environmental (learned actions of parents and caregivers) factors accentuate this.
Yet with the power of the mind, that we can hypnotize and reprogram those genetic predispositions with our thoughts that lead us into emotional states that feed our habits or actions...
These are the keys you can use to unlock success.
It's really about changing our interpretation of the thoughts on that unconscious level that makes us do these things when we are not putting all of our conscious thought into any thing we attempt to do in our busy lives.
A sort of reprogramming, if you will, at the level where our mind just acts on our current perception of the most beneficial outcome for us.
When done in the highly focused state of trance, your mind absorbs new ideas and suggestions that you you will automatically act upon.
You can control the thoughts you feed your mind when I hypnotize you with the session.
I was so excited about how all this worked I wanted to make it my life work.
What I have found, is that our Inner Wisdom is a place of infinite wealth and most of us have all the answers we need for happiness within us.
When I hypnotize you to get to that creative place within, then you begin to use it for your highest good.
hypnotize...Feel good now, hypnotize ...feel good now,hypnotize...Imagine a juicy salad when you are hungry,Feel good now
You can link these things while in this sate and the results are remarkable to anyone who may not understand the mechanics but they are some what simple.
I suggest you steer away from your natural inclination to hypnotize your children if they have a problem needs professional attention. Take them to a profession Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist behavior problems.
You can use some of these techniques to monitor yourself and attempt to steer clear of doing unnecessary planting of negative seeds. It also can be effective if used in conjunction with a professional intervention.
If your child is showing symptoms of of a mental health issue please get them the professional help they need. As far as using hypnosis techniques to cure your children of existing problems, you may be doing more harm then good if you are not a trained professional...
This is not a good idea, you are not in a position to make a correct assessment about all the factors your child may be facing. Do not try to do therapy on your child.
I always recommend that use these techniques to improve your parenting skills.
Use this information to develop broader awareness of more highly enhanced positive communication skills.
This is intended to help you see some new effective ways to communicate clearly and to to speak in positive terms, that are going to help children to have more clarity about what actions you want them do to.
So with that having been said we are free to move on and take a deeper look into your benefits as you learn about how I hypnotize you to get positive results.
A few people have emailed me and asked:
Will you
Hypnotize me
for a particular session that I want custom built for me?
I usually respond with a yes. Depending on what your particular goals are we can decide weather or not it is right for you.
How do I know this works?
Good question...Unlike when I began in this field, the effects of hypnosis are, now legitimate scientifically proven facts.
Theories are ideas, Facts are ideas that are backed by scientific research and testing and that give validity to theories.
This field is an expanding scientific study.
The state of hypnosis has opened doors to many areas of healing then just those done by the use of straight suggestions.
This state of trance is remarkable.
Why is it important to learn how to hypnotize myself or others effectively?
We create our external reality by our thoughts.This scientific evidence is new and many are excited about how to put it to use in their everyday lives.
The ideas themselves are not new, it's just that now the ideas are no longer just IDEAS.
Maybe you have heard about the Law of Attraction, or the Power of Now movement that has recently hit the media.
Books such as The New Earth relate concepts of hypnosis. They are great reads and they are all about hypnosis, and using the power of the mind.
The mind achieves various states of instant and miraculous transformations when I hypnotize you. But you must also wonder well what about self hypnosis?
It is amazing what your mind can do for you when you are armed with the tools to hypnotize yourself with great skill, with each waking thought in combination with all those positive unconscious programs you will greatly increase your ability to achieve deeper relaxation and well being.
Here's Why
I recall hearing the words "THE ETERNAL NOW" in a self help group about 20 years ago. It is a concept so simple. Within the context of trance, it refers to how easily we can manipulate our reality using each moment to out best advantage.
When we put it into application there is no wonder the results are so spontaneous and amazing.
The eternal now, allows us to make an impact on our external circumstances one person at a time. While also being a part of a greater something at this point in the history of human evolution.
This concept was a revelation to me then and remains a concept that I meditate on, and I continue to apply the concepts in my life 20 years later.
So, back to hypnosis.That is what you are here for, right? The Power of Now relates to hypnosis because it is the essence of what happens during a hypnosis session.
What input your mind perceives as real NOW is what it uses to create your actions and reactions to what ever circumstances you are in.
What this means to is that you can use your mind in a gentle, easy way, to enable yourself to change your life .....and it WORKS!
Hypnosis for personal change is a state of complete focus and usually deep relaxation.
While in this state we have a door way between to the automatic (key word here is: Auto) or as science and the medical community identifies it: the Autonomic Nervous System.
This is where you do things that you are unaware of every day such as regulate breathing, and digestion etc..
I can input programs into the subconscious mind and it will except statements. Then your subconscious mind directs you as it begins to have you automatically act on them according to its own economy and logic.
This is why putting suggestions in during this state works better then good old positive thinking. This way, the suggestions become automatic while in the full waking state.
This is also why putting the suggestion into the subconscious mind in a carefully planned out manner can make or break the effectiveness of the suggestion.
Hows that?
Well designed suggestions always consider the emotional impact on the subject, because this relates to MOTIVATION
. It is best to have a suggestion go in while there is no fear or doubt, these are two emotions that you will be able to get past in the clearing work portions of the session. That way you have a clean slate or a nice fresh pot of potting soil, free of any weed seeds, for the suggestions to take root and sprout to full blossom when I hypnotize you that is what I will be giving you a clearing session for.
When you combine this with powerful metaphors, that are poetic, you engage the mind, and you create the positive outcomes you desire.
All those repeated thoughts we talked about earlier take years and years to create your personality, your habits, problem solving skills, etc.
Working with the subconscious mind in hypnosis facilitates direct access to where all those repetitive thoughts are stored and acted upon.
It also by passes the critical mind, (that may be steering us with the awareness of fear and doubt) in a direction where we may not want to wind up.
To achieve an effective response from the mind, we use positive action words, that are associated with positive emotions and use time line awareness to directly impact the reality we are creating in this moment and future moments as well.
Here's one way we tackle the limiting aspects critical mind:
Deep relaxation and positive suggestions combined with the technology of brain entrainment also called neuro-programming.
This way we are not limited by fear, doubt, frustration and the whole gamut of existing negative emotions that block us from moving forward.
We go into the subconscious mind and insert building blocks that the mind loves to act upon.
Here is an example:Consider the word " quit ".
Now, think about the word " start ".
Think about the emotions associated with the two words.
The word "quit" is a word that means to not act; The other "start" sounds positive and gives an action to perform.
The word "quit" directs the mind to undo something. It does not suggest a creative action to be taken.
Additionally, it may make us feel like we are losing something and this has the potential to engenders fear and doubt.
The word "start" suggests that a positive creative action be performed. This feels like we are gaining something and provides emotional stability rather then the confusion and resistance associated with the aforementioned word "quit".
That way when I hypnotize you, in addition to the Brainwave entrainment technology, you will get:
The added benefits of properly placed suggestions, done in a well thought out manner designed by a professional.
This combined with Brainwave technology is the highest form of any personal development programs that we have discovered so far.